Comments on: My husband left when the going got tough….? http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/ Your options for selling your property and renting it back Mon, 21 Feb 2011 23:21:15 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.1 hourly 1 By: KG http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/comment-page-1/#comment-446 KG Sat, 17 Jul 2010 13:32:18 +0000 http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/#comment-446 Don feel lonely, Please u should feel relieved. why would u want to be or hear from someone who obviously dont care how u feel. Take this moment to make it all about you! get an awesome job! so awesome that u can buy yourself nice clothing and a brand new car. Take this time to realize that you are awesome! a DIVA! Who cares what he will think in the long run. People like that reap what they sow! one day or another he will realize how u felt and worse! All you need to do is say to yourself that you are awesome everyday and do what YOU have to do! And yes u will find someone who will treat u like a queen as long as you treat youself like one! Don feel lonely, Please u should feel relieved. why would u want to be or hear from someone who obviously dont care how u feel. Take this moment to make it all about you! get an awesome job! so awesome that u can buy yourself nice clothing and a brand new car. Take this time to realize that you are awesome! a DIVA! Who cares what he will think in the long run. People like that reap what they sow! one day or another he will realize how u felt and worse! All you need to do is say to yourself that you are awesome everyday and do what YOU have to do! And yes u will find someone who will treat u like a queen as long as you treat youself like one!

]]> By: Iona http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/comment-page-1/#comment-447 Iona Sat, 17 Jul 2010 13:32:18 +0000 http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/#comment-447 First of all you are a very good person Second of all Yes he will but not for a very l;ong time. First of all you are a very good person
Second of all Yes he will but not for a very l;ong time.

]]> By: I'm talkin to YOU! http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/comment-page-1/#comment-448 I'm talkin to YOU! Sat, 17 Jul 2010 13:32:18 +0000 http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/#comment-448 Sounds like you better put on a red dress, try on them high heels, cause you are in need of another " sponsor" (sugar daddy) Sounds like you better put on a red dress, try on them high heels, cause you are in need of another " sponsor" (sugar daddy)

]]> By: Diane http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/comment-page-1/#comment-449 Diane Sat, 17 Jul 2010 13:32:18 +0000 http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/#comment-449 I'm so sorry you're going through this. I'm from the UK and was dating and planning on marrying a man from the US. Texas to be precise. I backed out literally at the last minute due to his unreasonable, manipulative behaviour and emotional abusive ways. A case of Mr Prince Charming turned out to be Mr. Abuser! We're much older than you but the problem is the same. Do you have family here in the UK that you could contact? Do you want to stay in the States or come home? I sense you are in turmoil in your emotions about him, as I was. Wondering if he loves you and will return and it will all be ok again. It won't. Trust me. I gave him enough chances when we were together but I didn't leave the UK....thank God. When he knew I wasn't leaving for him, he ditched me, found some local American woman and married her within 8wks. As far as I know they are still together, 12mths on, but I have no idea. I just pity the poor sod for not knowing him as I did. To answer your question, no I don't think he will realise what he has done to you and I don't think he will even care. The best thing you could do is contact your family and get back home and stop your loneliness. If you need help I will help all I can from this end. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I’m from the UK and was dating and planning on marrying a man from the US. Texas to be precise. I backed out literally at the last minute due to his unreasonable, manipulative behaviour and emotional abusive ways. A case of Mr Prince Charming turned out to be Mr. Abuser! We’re much older than you but the problem is the same. Do you have family here in the UK that you could contact? Do you want to stay in the States or come home?

I sense you are in turmoil in your emotions about him, as I was. Wondering if he loves you and will return and it will all be ok again. It won’t. Trust me. I gave him enough chances when we were together but I didn’t leave the UK….thank God. When he knew I wasn’t leaving for him, he ditched me, found some local American woman and married her within 8wks. As far as I know they are still together, 12mths on, but I have no idea. I just pity the poor sod for not knowing him as I did.

To answer your question, no I don’t think he will realise what he has done to you and I don’t think he will even care. The best thing you could do is contact your family and get back home and stop your loneliness.

If you need help I will help all I can from this end.

]]> By: leftout52 http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/comment-page-1/#comment-450 leftout52 Sat, 17 Jul 2010 13:32:18 +0000 http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/#comment-450 I am so sorry, but it sounds like it is his loss and your gain eventually. If you ever do hear from him again, don't ever fall for this again or let him back into your life. If you do, you will teach him that he can come and go as he pleases and that you are strong enough to handle the aftermath. He has no conscience. Anyone who would take the time to plan this and leave you in destitution is not worth your time or your love. I am so sorry, but it sounds like it is his loss and your gain eventually. If you ever do hear from him again, don’t ever fall for this again or let him back into your life. If you do, you will teach him that he can come and go as he pleases and that you are strong enough to handle the aftermath. He has no conscience. Anyone who would take the time to plan this and leave you in destitution is not worth your time or your love.

]]> By: thatartistwin http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/comment-page-1/#comment-451 thatartistwin Sat, 17 Jul 2010 13:32:18 +0000 http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/#comment-451 There is a huge problem with women who meet guys from other countries and move to be with them. Clearly they have no history of living together for extended lengths of time and then expect the relationship to work out similarly to a relationship based on years of cohabitating. In this day and age, marriages rarely work out that are based on more. Don't even bother waiting for him. Either make your way on your own there or go back home. If he had the nerve to leave you alone in a strange country this early in the game, he is not worth it. You should have told the police that he had already taken his clothes and was merely there to harrass you, then gotten a restraining order. (I have given back the clothes before....they looked nice when they moved on.....never again) There is a huge problem with women who meet guys from other countries and move to be with them. Clearly they have no history of living together for extended lengths of time and then expect the relationship to work out similarly to a relationship based on years of cohabitating. In this day and age, marriages rarely work out that are based on more. Don’t even bother waiting for him. Either make your way on your own there or go back home. If he had the nerve to leave you alone in a strange country this early in the game, he is not worth it. You should have told the police that he had already taken his clothes and was merely there to harrass you, then gotten a restraining order. (I have given back the clothes before….they looked nice when they moved on…..never again)

]]> By: Orla C http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/comment-page-1/#comment-452 Orla C Sat, 17 Jul 2010 13:32:18 +0000 http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/#comment-452 Get a lawyer and get your divorce papers sorted. Get a lawyer and get your divorce papers sorted.

]]> By: robert x http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/comment-page-1/#comment-453 robert x Sat, 17 Jul 2010 13:32:18 +0000 http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/#comment-453 The real problem here is should you want him back. Seems to me that you are better off without him, in a sense him leaving you is his loss not yours.. Get your self another job, and take each day has they come.. He isn't worth one cent or one minute more of your time. The real problem here is should you want him back. Seems to me that you are better off without him, in a sense him leaving you is his loss not yours.. Get your self another job, and take each day has they come.. He isn’t worth one cent or one minute more of your time.

]]> By: Happy-2 http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/comment-page-1/#comment-441 Happy-2 Sat, 17 Jul 2010 13:32:17 +0000 http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/#comment-441 An emotionally abusive man who abandons his wife and then threatens her with the police is almost certainly too mentally ill to come to any positive realizations. An emotionally abusive man who abandons his wife and then threatens her with the police is almost certainly too mentally ill to come to any positive realizations.

]]> By: Andie http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/comment-page-1/#comment-442 Andie Sat, 17 Jul 2010 13:32:17 +0000 http://www.sellandrentback2u.co.uk/my-husband-left-when-the-going-got-tough/#comment-442 You sound like an angel and I'm very sorry to hear what you're going through. From the little you've told me about DH I can safely assume that he is a toxic individual, and while it's natural to want him back you are really better off without him. Keep your chin up and go for that higher paying job. Work on taking care of yourself and good things will come. Good luck in the new year. You sound like an angel and I’m very sorry to hear what you’re going through. From the little you’ve told me about DH I can safely assume that he is a toxic individual, and while it’s natural to want him back you are really better off without him. Keep your chin up and go for that higher paying job. Work on taking care of yourself and good things will come. Good luck in the new year.

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