i hate myself i feel trodden on?
why am i such a waste of space ?
ive left my ex after 7 years-hes telling me i have to pay his rent til january ive already paid 90 % of it for the last 7 years. before that the guy i was with sold the house we had behind my back and recently was boasting on facebook about the larger bigger house hes bought. i just feel completely and utterly crap i have very few friends. all our muual friends have shunned me. i am now in debt management because of this guy and hate myself. im very shy and quiet and dont make friends easy i just feell trodden on. i hate myself and dont know what to do please help thanku xx
this is not about friends this is about lawyer and legal advice.
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this situation is unfortunate but feeling sorry for yourself won’t help anything you need to get out there and be more determined in life than ever. Don’t let petty things bring you don’t in life, let it inspire you to work harder and do better.
Your not a waste of space atall. Your ex sounds like he took complete advantage of you for having you pay his rent! If you’s were actually living together & you took care of the rent, i hope he paid the gas, electric, water & food bills! That way it balances it out. One guy actually sold your house? If his name was on the house, he would of took advantage of that because you have no say, as much as it was wrong. People do boast of facebook. He knows full well you would have read his status’ & comments & he’s trying to get to you. My ex bf made me pay the rent, stole money out my purse, stole my mobile and sold it & almost forced me to take out a loan for him. Thats now in the past & i think of myself as having a lucky escape when we split up so thank your lucky stars your not in any serious debt because of him, it could have been worse. Your being trodden on because your letting people walk all over you. Get yourself straight, aim high & you will be the last one laughing
Some one is only a waste of space if they have killed or raped someone, and you have done nothing wrong, except maybe chosen the wrong men. We all have times in our lives when we hit a low. Hang in there and buckle down. If you know how to work hard you can get yourself out of anything. Get your finances straight, stay away from men, and things will fall into place. If you can afford it, take some college classes, go to the gym, take a yoga class, do something positive. Maybe start everyday w/ a walk. You have to start somewhere. By the way, stay off of facebook. It is just full of all kinds of negative bull crap. Not a place to spend much time if you are feeling down.
Oh dear Sheena you dont half pick em !!!!!
Dont hate yourself just learn from it an dont you dare pay any more rent for him !!
The only person you need to be paying right now is your solicitor.