does anyone know what i can do, my husband and i bought properties and land with joint money but he has them in his name, i came back to england last year as he was having an affair with a bulgarian girl half his age, we are not divorced yet but he is selling our assests and having a good time with the girlfriend while im left here with no money is there anything i can do to stop him or at least get my fair share. they are both living in our main house and getting rent off our appartment in varna is there anyway i can make him send half the money to me

Hi I have recently moved yards with my friend, we now rent our own bit of land, it 3 acres with 2 stables it really is perfect however my mare seems to get so worried when her friend (gelding) is out of sight. When I try to tack her up and the gelding goes out of sight she gets really upset and starts barging the stable she does gets worried even when tied up outside. When we go for a ride on our own she is really silly while she is in ’smelling distance of him then she really seems to calm down but then when riding back to the yard she gets really silly again which does involve lifting her front feet off the floor and cantering and I struggle to slow her down at the end of roads. The gelding does miss her but not half as bad as her him. I love my mare deeply but at the moment I am not able to use her as I would like. We have only been at the new yard for 4 weeks and I am hoping that she will settle??? I really don’t want to sell her on I want to get over this problem. Please knowledgeable advice only thanks
I would also like to add that sometime the gelding leaves her for a few horse and she is fine in field on her own after a few min. She is 12yo do you think that this is something I will be able to get her out of?

MY partners Ex is refusing to sell their property even though neither of them can afford to buy each other out. He is having to pay the mortgage in full each month as well as rent to his mum and other personal bills. They have a 1 year old son and she has said she will use the child welfare act against him if he forces a sale. He has spoken to a solicitor and they have said there is’nt much he can do as the courts will always side with the mother. They have had mediation and both were told that even if they were still together they could still not afford the mortgage and other bills and still live comfortably. What are his rights on the property, can he moved back in? and what would happen if he took a lower paid job and couldnt afford to keep the mortgage on? my partner has had time of sick due to depression and has been on suicide watch, he has been threatened by his brother and his ex wan’ts to cut all ties but will not discuss anything with him as to a solution.
my partner and his ex were never married, she has severed her tenancy on the property leaving it to their son if she dies. He want’s to provide for his son and want’s his own place so he can do that properly. she gets legal aid and she pays for their sons nusary fees the csa are not involved at the minute hence he pays the mortgage.
he will gladly sign over the house and come off the mortgage so the property is hers to do with as she wishes but she can’t afford this on her own and she needs to apply for it to go through.
they went to mediation and she refused to listen to what was being said. the mortgage is in joint names and both are working him full time her part time but she earns more. they were together 14 years and have had the property for nine. he pays the mortgage as maintainance and she is supposed to use half for the mortgage and half for their son instead of getting the csa involved
if the property is sold and the profits split after the mortgage and joint loan are paid there will be substantial cash left for them both to rent or at least put down a deposit on another place, she wont see the sence in this and although she works just wants him to provide everything as her way of revenge

My ex-fiance & I were together 7 yrs. We bought a home together. Two yrs ago he revealed to me that he owed the IRS 0K. After complete shock, I agreed to take a 2nd out on our home, but the lienholder would not do it unless my fiance was taken off the deed of the house. This was done, leaving ME responsible for HIS debt. He assured me he would pay it back to me. I would not have bailed him out, but my mother was terminally ill & staying with us at that time & the stress was too much for me. I caved. Later, my mother passed away. He has been intimidating me with lies ever since. In May, I couldn’t take living with him anymore, as I discovered he is quite a conman. I moved my things out of the house I now own by myself. He refuses to move out. He’s threatened to ‘trash’ the house if I ‘try’ anything. I’ve discovered many things about him…he’s quite a con man. He just recently filed for bankruptcy, naming me as one of the people he’s unable to pay. He said he didn’t know his lawyer was going to do this…of course, I know this is a lie. He does not have a job, but is working under some capacity and now I discovered he’s renting a room to a woman, getting her to pay HIM & all without my permission. In fact, he hasn’t had permission to live there since I moved my stuff out, told him to leave & wanted to sell the house. Does he have any right to stay there? Let alone, claim bankruptcy & them rent a room to somebody in a home he doesn’t own?
He is off the deed and title. The lienholder, along with the IRS, forced him to sign a quit claim & be removed off the house altogether…in order for me to obtain the 0,000.

When I moved my things out, he had the nerve to accuse me of looting MY own home…laughably, the garage remote…he put it all in writing, entitled, "Stolen Items."

He has been in real estate as a career, but has pretty much been blackballed in our area. But he had me believing I’d signed an additional ‘quit claim’ & that he could ‘deed’ himself back on my home whenever he pleased. I know I should have been more diligent in checking out all his intimidating statements, but I feel like I’m a character in a bad movie! I shouldn’t have signed for the 2nd…it was stupid of me…but it’s done. I can’t sue him for the money, because he’s claimed bankruptcy & named me as a creditor he can’t pay. Can I file bankruptcy, too. At this point, it can’t hurt me any worse.

I’m 19 years old, an immigrant from another country. And now I live in usa since 3 years ago. And since then, I’ve been working every single day. I even stop going to school to help support my family.
I barely hang out or have a social life. Now we have a family business, its not going well, I do my best, but my mom always blame me and my brother. I feel sorry for him, he is 17 years old and have to go trough all this economic problem. I work at least 13 hours a day. I’m not tired, idk what I feel. Stress, smy mom yell every single day, acting like she is the only one who work for us. When I get extra money, I help to pay business bills, and sometimes I treat myself such as game console, and she always say that I spent too much money for myself not caring for anybody.
Here is the fact, we were rich back then, and she went back and forth to usa and our country to do her things. I went with them a few times. (My dad passed away when I was 3). She bought car everytime she visit city or state, yes bought not rent. I never had that kinda of good life like she did. She was bankcrupt or something like that. N I had to live with my own with a very limited money, I felt very poor.

I don’t know… its just really stressing.. I really want to go to school, have friends, n work for somebody where I know how much I can get in a month. I told my mom we shouldn’t open a business, we better work for somebody else (we had an offer to work at some places), and she was like, you have a mental of slave. And everytime I say that we have to sell the business, she always say that I have a mental of a slave. Even her friend said pretty much the same thing. You are asian, its hard to work in the office or high class jobs. I said to myself, if he can’t do it that doesn’t mean I can’t do it. But that repeats over and over again in my brain, and it seems like I’m giving up. Since I’m not doing school anymore. Well I do it online, I have a few more courses to go. But I get to tired after 13 hours of working. I tried to study during slow hours, but my mom keep saying stuff that makes me down and useless. Or when she doesn’t, I can’t focus on my study, thinking about bills,and taxes..

I don’t see future in my life, cutting myself used to make feel better, but now not anymore. Suicide seems like the only choice, but I’m afraid of how much pain I will get. And if I keep my life I know I’m going crazy. I sometimes thing how it would be like if my dad was still alive. And why god keeping me alive to go trough all these? Why doesn’t He take my life away, right now…

The only thing that keep me alive is my brother…

My son lives in a private rented room from a letting agency.
Things were ok until December when he lost his job. The firm he worked for had to lay off staff due to reduced trade in building trade. Anyway he told the3 the letting agency and claimed housing benefit. However yesterday told him he had to move out by Wednesday, they said that the owner wants to sell the flat and they were going to move him to another flat but because he is unemployed he is to move out!. His rent is paid up to date.
Does anyone know what rights if any he has?. He does have a tenancy agreement but we have noticed that they have not renewed it and it has expired. However he has been living there and paying rent every month.
They are also Iclaiming that furniture was there that was not. I fear that they are going to refuse to give him back his deposit.
Can anyone help?

p.s they dont seem to be registered as i noticed that there is no smoke alarms and there was a live plug socket when he moved in. – get the picture!!

I’m 23 and i lost my job a few weeks back. im renting a flat and have a credit card to pay off and bills to pay.
been looking everywere for a job but no luck yet.
The only benefit im entitled to is housing benefit which only pays half my rent cos of my age. I got turned down for any other benefit.
I have 3 weeks to find an income. anyone have any ideas apart from selling myself.
Im planning to sell all the things in my flat but im not sure how you go about selling furniture.
Really need help. thanks x
sorry i dont know why its been posted in diet and fitness. sorry.

hi need some advice, my partner and i have recently ended our relationship of 16yrs. We have lived together at various addresses over the years but for the last 10years we have lived together in a house where we have brought up our 2 children,due to her bad credit she could not come on the mortgage and as a result the mortgage is in my name as are the deeds to the house.
OK she says a month ago that its over and she is going to move out and we should sell the house and split the profit( we both work full time and earn about the same, well her a little more) and she will be taking the kids and all the furniture. The problem is she has chose to rent a house which i feel she is going to struggle in financially, i feel if we sell and split the money it is only a matter of time before she has spent her share on rent and bills(even with the child support i provide), she has never been very good with money full stop, then there is a good chance she will have to move to an area that’s perhaps not that nice.
What i want to know is legally do i have to sell the house or buy her out, at the moment im staying elsewhere but when she moves out could i not just move back in and take it off the market, im worried that im not going to be able to afford much of a place myself to have the kids when they come round if we sell.
thanks in advance for any responses.
no we are not married, and she has contributed to the household bills for the last 3 years
sorry i should have said that i live in the uk, but thanks for all the replies.

Split from my husband and therefore had to sell our 3 bedroom house in a nice village. I am now miserable and wanting to go back! What can I do? I cannot put it back on the market so soon and don’t think my mortgage will allow me to rent it out. It’s only 1 bedroom and has open plan kitchen/living area and is not very big. I’ve only been here a few days but feel so black and alone. Its a very nice flat, nicely decorated etc.. so thats not the problem. Don’t know anyone in the village! PLEASE HELP.
Thanks everyone. A couple of points I should have made clear, a) I work full time, b) I have been SEPARATED from my husband since december last year and he’s not lived in our old house since then so we’ve not lived together for nearly a year! We are not divorced and still on good terms.

The property we rent is up for sale though we have not yet been served valid notice to end out tenancy, due to this and a change in our personal circumstances we have applied to our local council for help.

They have declined as our landlord has said to them she is in no hurry to sell and will serve us notice when she gets a fair offer – she has told us the exact opposite and in fact wants to back date our notice to get us out quicker (illegal)

Just being nosy, I checked out our flat on the internet and it is showing as ’sold subject to contract’

we are meeting with her tonight to discuss the palava caused by her not serving us notice, should we let on that we know she has also effectively sold the flat or should we keep quiet?
I have already sought legal advice and know exactly where I stand, I just wondered if we should let on we know she has sold already despite her lies.